By your logic, if China were to successfully invade the continental US and kill or displace 99% of current US inhabitants, then that's just the way the cookie crumbles, and whoever survives should be grateful to eat sh*t. Is that about right? Because that's PRECISELY what you're describing.
No you are wrong. If China killed 99% of the Americans they obviously would now rule America. If China accepted the 1% left as equal citizens of the new nation, the 1% would be wise to accept. To think the 1% left would then demand that they don't have to pay the same taxes that all other citizens pay because they were here first is laughable. That is where the Native Americans are now at. Unbelievable in their demands..
The only "unbelievable" notion that I see would be to (more or less) slaughter an entire race of people and expect them to feel ANY obligation at all to their conquerers.
Everyone's entitled to their own opinions, but not their own facts.