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#1330891 - 03/08/12 11:27 AM Re: Unreal! [Re: #1defender]
VM Smith
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i hope its not what has been protrayed, although the damage has been done.


And IF events happened as portrayed, then he's done that damage himself.

The truth will come out, whatever it is.
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#1330912 - 03/08/12 01:25 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: #1defender]
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Originally Posted By: #1defender
dont judge what you dont know. in fact it could be your family next! this guy has lost a job, a mother, a father all in the same year. lets not even think that maybe some personal issues at home might be going on. he has given to society for years and has a family. all the gossip in the world doesnt put the answers or facts in your hands. some of you calling radio stations should not throw rocks when your homes are made of glass. good luck to tom spina and his wife and children. i hope its not what has been protrayed, although the damage has been done.


Arent u in fact judging what u dont know? I mean u dont know its not true and yet u sit here and judge us and him.. Shame on you

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#1331078 - 03/09/12 09:59 AM Re: Unreal! [Re: back again]
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Originally Posted By: #1defender
dont judge what you dont know. in fact it could be your family next! this guy has lost a job, a mother, a father all in the same year. lets not even think that maybe some personal issues at home might be going on. he has given to society for years and has a family. all the gossip in the world doesnt put the answers or facts in your hands. some of you calling radio stations should not throw rocks when your homes are made of glass. good luck to tom spina and his wife and children. i hope its not what has been protrayed, although the damage has been done.


Arent u in fact judging what u dont know? I mean u dont know its not true and yet u sit here and judge us and him.. Shame on you


Are people calling radio stations about this dilemma? Tommy needs our thoughts and prayers, and so do the girls he has effected in a negative manner. We cannot leave them out of our thoughts. Keep praying everyone!
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#1331084 - 03/09/12 10:23 AM Re: Unreal! [Re: Sketch]
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Ok i will pray that this pedophile makes it to prison, and the inmates are able to breach the safety of his protective custody unit, and they do to him what he was grooming these young girls to have done to him. And i pray that their was no permanent damage done to both the young girls targeted by this creep.
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#1331085 - 03/09/12 10:57 AM Re: Unreal! [Re: back again]
talula13
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Are you for real! Pray for someone that is sexting to a 15 year old girl, not once but twice!! And gosh knows how many others. Just because you knew him as a kid, well I went to school with him also and you know what, I hope he does time for his crime. Yep, he was a nice guy in school, but apparently he has different thoughts now, and he should have thought twice before doing what he did. Maybe he should have said no thanks when offered the 15 year olds phone number, that would have been the ADULT thing to do!!


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#1331086 - 03/09/12 11:01 AM Re: Unreal! [Re: talula13]
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I know many people that know Spina personally and are in shock that he would ever do something like this. Some are even hoping that it wasn't somebody that got a hold of his phone and did this and not him. Some were even wondering about his sons. I agree, we cannot judge - that is up to the court system to prevail. I'm sure more information will come out during this investigation.
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#1331089 - 03/09/12 11:19 AM Re: Unreal! [Re: talula13]
Sketch
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Originally Posted By: talula13
Are you for real! Pray for someone that is sexting to a 15 year old girl, not once but twice!! And gosh knows how many others. Just because you knew him as a kid, well I went to school with him also and you know what, I hope he does time for his crime. Yep, he was a nice guy in school, but apparently he has different thoughts now, and he should have thought twice before doing what he did. Maybe he should have said no thanks when offered the 15 year olds phone number, that would have been the ADULT thing to do!!



Tommy needs to change his ways. I'm not sure where his interest in the younger generation comes from. My worry is that if the news outlets reported the allegations, then the police must have some good evidence to even share that out. His old friends watch and wait and yes, pray. That is our saving mode.
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#1331090 - 03/09/12 11:26 AM Re: Unreal! [Re: Sketch]
talula13
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You do that and I will pray that there isnt more victims \:\(
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#1331115 - 03/09/12 12:50 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: Sketch]
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No one has said he is in the right, they are saying that it's difficult to believe- knowing him. He is a good person, came from a wonderful family and has a lovely family of his own. No one is saying it's impossible that he did it due to those circumstances, they are simply saying it's hard to believe. He has just lost both of his parents within two months of each other, no one knows where his head is at or what he's going through. (I'd bet quite a bit of money that none of you are licensed psychiatrist.) Of course it's not right what he did, and of course it isn't the girls fault but let's not all jump to conclusions and act as though he had this girl tied up in his basement as a sex slave when clearly that wasn't the case. It's really disheartening how every time someone gets in any sort of trouble, everyone has to jump all over it because they want to make themselves feel better about their own issues and can hide behind a screen name. None of you are the judge or jury so your opinion really doesn't matter. "Before you point fingers, make sure your hands are clean."
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#1331123 - 03/09/12 01:01 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: kal2121]
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And yes, Talula, pray for him because CLEARLY something is going on.= with him since it's out of character. Unfortunately we aren't all as perfect as you because then we would have it all figured out and NEVER make impulsive mistakes, right? Get Real. It was a sexual text message to a 15 year old, THOUGH IT WASN'T RIGHT, let's not act like she doesn't know what sex is and hasn't ever heard or read something "dirty". NOT THAT IT'S OKAY THAT A MAN SENT A SEXUALLY EXPLICIT TEXT MESSAGE TO HER, but quit acting like it was a picture of his penis sent to a 6 year old. Also, how do we know the child wasn't confiding in him about her awful home life and maybe she was in need so he bought her things she needed and offered his home to her WHERE HIS WIFE AND KIDS ALSO LIVE because she needed a safe place. Maybe the text was a sexually explicit forward. NO ONE KNOWS YET. So maybe try giving people the benefit of the doubt before you jump down their throat. When the facts come out and if they are what you believed to be true, then you can talk (even though it doesn't concern you and you should probably find a hobby, read a book, clean your home, etc.)
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#1331125 - 03/09/12 01:02 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: kal2121]
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Originally Posted By: kal2121
of course it isn't the girls fault but let's not all jump to conclusions and act as though he had this girl tied up in his basement as a sex slave when clearly that wasn't the case. It's really disheartening how every time someone gets in any sort of trouble, everyone has to jump all over it because they want to make themselves feel better about their own issues and can hide behind a screen name. None of you are the judge or jury so your opinion really doesn't matter. "Before you point fingers, make sure your hands are clean."


Yes thank god it hadnt yet reached the point of her being physically assaulted as she was verbally and mentally, glad they caught this scumbag in time. And my hands definately arent clean but they also dont have the smell of 15 yr old girls on them.. so i will point my finger at a pedophile all day and night thank you very much.

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#1331126 - 03/09/12 01:02 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: kal2121]
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Originally Posted By: kal2121
of course it isn't the girls fault but let's not all jump to conclusions and act as though he had this girl tied up in his basement as a sex slave when clearly that wasn't the case. It's really disheartening how every time someone gets in any sort of trouble, everyone has to jump all over it because they want to make themselves feel better about their own issues and can hide behind a screen name. None of you are the judge or jury so your opinion really doesn't matter. "Before you point fingers, make sure your hands are clean."


Yes thank god it hadnt yet reached the point of her being physically assaulted as she was verbally and mentally, glad they caught this scumbag in time. And my hands definately arent clean but they also dont have the smell of 15 yr old girls on them.. so i will point my finger at a pedophile all day and night thank you very much.

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#1331137 - 03/09/12 01:16 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: back again]
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Hasn't reached the point of that yet? Who are you to say it would have? You're nobody. You can't make that determination. It's people like you who try to make news more than it is. His hands smell like 15 year old girl? Really? Cause you just admitted he hadn't touched her. I'm sure you have quite a few "mistakes" under your belt because, again, you hide behind a screen name where it's safe and that way can cast stones at others. You don't know the story, you're not the judge, you're a forum troll. Also, he's been charged with two counts of endangering the welfare of a child. So, you might want to watch calling him a pedophile since that is slander.
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#1331140 - 03/09/12 01:20 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: kal2121]
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what was the name of the female blonde in florida that had intimate relations with a young boy but she did not do jail time?
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#1331150 - 03/09/12 01:38 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: bluezone]
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Originally Posted By: bluezone
what was the name of the female blonde in florida that had itimate relations with a young boy but she did not do jail time?


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Yes, we cannot make claims against Tommy until a fair and balanced trial has been done. I really think that phones and computers and stuff like that are a big problem. Its so easy now to do something dumb and its permenent.


Edited by Sketch (03/09/12 01:40 PM)
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#1331161 - 03/09/12 02:04 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: kal2121]
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Originally Posted By: kal2121
Hasn't reached the point of that yet? Who are you to say it would have? You're nobody. You can't make that determination. It's people like you who try to make news more than it is. His hands smell like 15 year old girl? Really? Cause you just admitted he hadn't touched her. I'm sure you have quite a few "mistakes" under your belt because, again, you hide behind a screen name where it's safe and that way can cast stones at others. You don't know the story, you're not the judge, you're a forum troll. Also, he's been charged with two counts of endangering the welfare of a child. So, you might want to watch calling him a pedophile since that is slander.


His behavior is what is classified as grooming behavior, something pedophiles do to their victims before abusing them. And really who are you to say he ahs not done this b4, how often does a criminal get caught committing his first crime. And u might want to watch who u think u are. I could care less bring on the slander lawsuit the evidence of the case backs up my acusations. Truth is he is lucky this wasnt my daughter bc i wouldnt of called the cops. Sicko sexts a teen girl and your defending him, wow must be your husband or your dad. Did he sext u too is that why u think its ok?

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#1331164 - 03/09/12 02:14 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: back again]
talula13
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Kal21 - Dont believe I spoke the words I was perfect! No one is in my book! Get REAL!! Why dont you go read a book, or clean your house!! MY book is read, actually I just started a new one yesterday by Nora Roberts, thank you and my house is CLEAN. \:\)
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#1331230 - 03/09/12 09:27 PM Re: Unreal! [Re: talula13]
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I'm not sure how often a criminal gets caught the first time they commit a crime and I'm certain you don't either so that comment was erroneous. He was lucky it wasn't your daughter cause you wouldn't have called the cops? You're right. You probably would have signed on to the forums and fed your complaints to strangers while remaining anonymous. That's effective, right? He is my cousin that's how I have an opinion. How did you form yours? Solely by what you heard on the news I'm sure. Im all set arguing with forum trolls.. Have your opinions, not that you're important enough to matter anyway.

Oh and Talula- Zing. That was good. Both clever and well written. Cyber high five!

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#1331239 - 03/10/12 03:33 AM Re: Unreal! [Re: kal2121]
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Shocker your his family, never would of guessed...
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#1331242 - 03/10/12 04:10 AM Re: Unreal! [Re: back again]
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John Wayne Gacy was a *stand-up* guy and a *pillar* of the community too.... little did they know he savagely tortured, raped and killed 33 boys...26 of which were buried in the crawl space under his home!!!

Gacy became active in his local community activity and projects, including entertaining at picnics and parties as a clown and volunteering to clean the township Democratic Party office where he offered the labor services of his PDM employees free of charge.[58] Gacy was rewarded for his services by being appointed to serve upon the Norwood Park Township street lighting committee.[59] He subsequently earned the title of precinct captain.[60] In 1975, Gacy was appointed director of Chicago's annual Polish Constitution Day Parade—an annual event he was to supervise from 1975 until 1978. Through his work with the parade, Gacy met and was photographed with then First Lady Rosalynn Carter on May 6, 1978.[61] Rosalynn Carter signed one photo: "To John Gacy. Best Wishes. Rosalynn Carter".


Better yet...ask author Ann Rule.... her friend and previous colleague on the suicide hotline at the King County Crisis Clinic was TED BUNDY!!!
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